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Archive for the ‘Partners’ Category
Borderline Personality Support and Recovery Group for Those with Borderline Personality and a Group for Loved Ones, BPD Family run by A.J. Mahari in Southwestern Ontario Canada
Borderline Personality Support and Recovery Group in Kitchener-Waterloo and surrounding area in Southwestern Ontario, Canada, and a support group for Loved Ones, BPD Family, non borderlines, both free and run by Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self-Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari.
© A.J. Mahari, July 10, 2011 – All rights reserved.
Non Borderlines – BPD Family and Compassion for those with Borderline Personality Disorder
Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari, on video, on the subject of non borderlines, loved ones of those with BPD, partners, and family members having compassion for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder. Why is compassion for those with BPD important? What makes it challenging for those who are non borderline? Can compassion be confused with enabling and rescuing? Does compassion or lack thereof have anything to do with what you are experiencing from your borderline loved one? Can you or should you have compassion in the face of abuse, borderline rage, borderline splitting, on-again, off-again, cyclical and toxic relationships?
Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder
Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze – Recovery For Non Borderlines
Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?
Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder
Inside The Borderline Mind
4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks – Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle
The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder – Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
Full Circle – Lessons For Non Borderlines
plitting in Borderline Personality – Loved Ones
Ebooks and Audio Programs © A.J. Mahari
© A.J. Mahari, June 16, 2011 – Phoenix Rising Publicatons – All rights reserved.
Can You Validate Your Borderline Loved One?
Many people who email A.J Mahari, and many of her Life Coaching clients who are loved ones, family members, partners or ex-partners or on-again, off-again partners of a person with Borderline Personality Disorder are asking her about validation. Does it help if you, as a loved one of someone with BPD, learn how to validate and support the person with BPD in your life in how they are feeling and what they are communicating?
Punishment and Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder
Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze – Recovery For Non Borderlines
Can You Rescue a Borderline Loved One?
Facing The Facts on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder
Inside The Borderline Mind
4 BPD Loved Ones Ebooks – Puzzle Mystery of Hope & Splitting and BPD Audio Program Bundle
The Dilemma on The Other Side of Borderline Personality Disorder – Can Borderlines Love? Do Borderlines Feel Love?
Full Circle – Lessons For Non Borderlines
plitting in Borderline Personality – Loved Ones
Ebooks and Audio Programs © A.J. Mahari
© A.J. Mahari, Phoenix Rising Publicatons – All rights reserved.
Coaching and Understanding to Help BPD Loved Ones (Non Borderlines) Cope with Someone With BPD in Your Life
Loved ones, family members, partners or ex-partners of those with Borderline Personality Disorder are often confused, in pain, and struggling to cope with a loved one with BPD. Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach A.J. Mahari was interviewed on the healthyplace.com Mental Health TV Show on the subject of BPD Loved ones and Coping with someone in your life with BPD. This interview has been broken up into three parts to fit on youtube. You can watch the there excerpts of this interview below or by going to my YouTube Channel
- The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPDli>
- Inside The Borderline Mind
- The Shame of Abandonment In BPD
- Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze – Recovery For Nons
- Facing the Facts of BPD – On The Other Side For Nons
- Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love
Audio Programs For Loved Ones of BPD © A.J. Mahari
- Purchase all 3 of ebooks for NON BORDERLINES or 3 Non Borderline Ebooks packaged together with audio.
- Purchase all 5 Core Wound of Abandonment in BPD ebooks
- Non Borderlines – You can purchase 6 ebooks packaged together without audio or 6 ebooks bundled together with 2 audio programs 6 ebooks packaged together with 2 audio programs
- Those with BPD and/or Non Borderlines can purchase A.J. Mahari’s 3 “Core Wound of Abandonment” series ebooks or Mahari’s 3 “Core Wound of Abandonment” series ebooks with From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD – The Inner Chid Audio Program
- The Shame of Abandonment in BPD
- From False Self To Authentic Self In BPD – Getting In Touch With Your Inner Child
- BPD and Abandonment
- Finding Hope From the Polarized Reality of BPD
- Preparing For Recovery From BPD
- Emotion Dysregulation in BPD
- Rage Addiction in Borderline Personality Disorder
Audio Programs © A.J. Mahari
Please be sure to visit healthyplace.com where they now feature blogs including one written by someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.
Borderline Personality Books for BPD and Loved Ones
Author, Life Coach, Mental Health and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari has written 6 Books specifically about Borderline Personality Disorder and 4 Books specifically for Loved Ones about Borderline Personality Disorder.
A.J. Mahari has also written and narrated 12 Audio Programs about Borderline Personality Disorder, along with 4 Audios about BPD Recovery and 13 Audio Programs specifically for Loved ones with someone with BPD in (or who was in) their lives.
A.J. Mahari also has Books and Audios about various topics under the category of Self Help that can be of help to those with BPD and/or to their loved ones as well.
You can also purchase coaching sessions with A.J. Mahari
© Phoenix Rising Publications and Touchstone Life Coaching Services – All rights reserved.
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A.J.’s Main Message to Loved Ones of BPD
Author of 20 Ebooks, author and narrator of 30+ Audio Programs Life Coach and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari gives a synopsis of her main message to loved ones of those with Borderline Personality Disorder who are in significant other relationships.
“My main message to loved ones in significant other relationships with those with BPD is two-fold. You cannot rescue or bring about change in your loved one. You cannot “fix” them. Secondly, if your BPD partner is not taking personality responsibility, does not follow up on promises and commitments made, isn’t getting help, isn’t working to find and create change in his or her own life, nothing in the relational dynamic can really change for the better in any long-term or healthy consistent way.
Loved ones, especially, but not limited to those in significant other relationships with people with BPD, need to know that there comes a time when further focusing on the person with BPD in your life in what becomes an “over-focusing” will keep you stuck and is not helpful to anyone.
- The Puzzle and Mystery of Hope on the Other Side of BPD
- Inside The Borderline Mind
- The Shame of Abandonment In BPD
- Breaking Free of The Borderline Maze – Recovery For Nons
- Facing the Facts of BPD – On The Other Side For Nons
- Overcoming Denial About BPD and Love
Audio Programs © A.J. Mahari
© A.J. Mahari, July 2, 2010 – All rights reserved.
Join my email list and you will be able to join me in free conference calls and ask me your questions about BPD and and ways to cope as a loved one or questions about staying or leaving and much more.
Join my email list and you will be able to join me in free conference calls and ask me your questions about BPD and and ways to cope as a loved one or questions about staying or leaving and much more.